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I wrote to her in February 2015.

February 2015

A keypad on a phone entices me to type. To write words on and on. Imaginations that flows through the mind.

Today, it's about you. You I have come to know. You I'm learning about each day. A few miles you are from me but every step I want to learn of. The distance, I'd love to break but I know it's just for a while.

How are you this morning? So many words to say to you like I always want to. Talking all day long and the words never seem to stop. Talk of a time when I wondered how couples used to spend hours talking to one another, the time when I thought of what I'd be saying to you everyday and when I decided not to bother about it, that there would be something new, some similar for each day.

You amaze me each day, each day that I learn something new about you. Something that makes me wonder. Wonder how strong you are and how delicate you could be.

Your strength I'm proud of my dear. Days you get to spend at the office working on the reconciliation, doing the process map even till 1a.m in the morning at home. Something I'd rather not try unless it's an emergency. Even sometimes when it's an emergency, I shut off early. I guess I'm still the morning guy. With all the strength I can garner.

We are so different and I know. Different backgrounds. Different temperaments. I know for the dominant one. Different sex. Different ideas. Even different skin colours. And these all coming together with a bound of love makes a difference when we open our eyes to understand one another. A difference when I learn about the art of washing my hands when I get home even when I know I wouldn't be doing it always but I try to 90 percent of the time and you smile the 10 percent.

Love, a word I'm learning of each day. Still not perfect. I learn each day. I've got some distance to cover. Jesus taught on this and I see each day how it is been displayed in the Book of books. I say I love you not because I'm perfect towards loving you. I say I love you because I learn each day to. To love you. To be patient, to give, to listen, to share, to be humble and on.

Baby, it's a new month and there's so much we are going to achieve, as individuals and as a team. Welcome to this new week. You are definitely going to have a great day.

The words could go on and on....I'd let the pen rest here.

Klanj

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